Emilay (right) was my buddy. She showed me around on the first day, introduced me to her family, told me about her aspirations--love her.
I miss them.
Funniest thing, they wouldn't let us work. We got on a ten hour flight to an island in the middle of the ocean, then drove for hours in the middle of the night to get to our lodging, which was a half hour drive to the village that we made twice a day. We wanted to be there to work. And all they wanted us to do was sit down on some cinderblocks in the shade and drink a coconut that a kid had just tossed down from the top of the tree. It was an ongoing battle to just get them to let me dig for 5 minutes. Luckily, whenever they wouldn't let me do something, I could always go and haul cinderblocks to the worksite. Or gravel. Or sand. And when I wanted more sand or gravel in my bag, they'd put in half a shovel full. I really had to push to get them to let me do something. They got the idea by the end.
If I learned anything from these people, it is to care for others. In all honesty, I have no idea who lived in the house that the bathroom I was building was for. It wasn't Eddie, and it was Nasoni. That's what I know. Nasoni woke up extra early every morning to take care of his farm before he came to build - and it wasn't even for him. The village has such an amazing perspective on life.
Time after time, Nasoni told Seth and me about how they are a "social people." If they have a story to tell, they stop by the nearest house and tell it. They sincerely live their lives with and for others. And I've never seen a happier people. Too often, I find myself wrapped up in myself. I think about what I want, what I need. They've got something figured out that many of us can't seem to match--they forget about themselves entirely.
Funniest thing, they wouldn't let us work. We got on a ten hour flight to an island in the middle of the ocean, then drove for hours in the middle of the night to get to our lodging, which was a half hour drive to the village that we made twice a day. We wanted to be there to work. And all they wanted us to do was sit down on some cinderblocks in the shade and drink a coconut that a kid had just tossed down from the top of the tree. It was an ongoing battle to just get them to let me dig for 5 minutes. Luckily, whenever they wouldn't let me do something, I could always go and haul cinderblocks to the worksite. Or gravel. Or sand. And when I wanted more sand or gravel in my bag, they'd put in half a shovel full. I really had to push to get them to let me do something. They got the idea by the end.
If I learned anything from these people, it is to care for others. In all honesty, I have no idea who lived in the house that the bathroom I was building was for. It wasn't Eddie, and it was Nasoni. That's what I know. Nasoni woke up extra early every morning to take care of his farm before he came to build - and it wasn't even for him. The village has such an amazing perspective on life.
Time after time, Nasoni told Seth and me about how they are a "social people." If they have a story to tell, they stop by the nearest house and tell it. They sincerely live their lives with and for others. And I've never seen a happier people. Too often, I find myself wrapped up in myself. I think about what I want, what I need. They've got something figured out that many of us can't seem to match--they forget about themselves entirely.
Forget yourself and go to work.
--Gordon B. Hinckley
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